Do you tend to forgive and forget or hold grudges? What is the longest you've ever stayed angry with someone? Is there anything the other person could say or do to win back your friendship and trust?
Yeah, as a general rule, I tend to be pretty forgiving. It's not been easy, but - certainly as far as Jane's been concerned - I just had to learn to let go and not hang on to any negativity. That's sort of been something I try to apply to all my relationships.
What I'm less good at is the forgetting bit. So although I've forgiven some folks, I still remember their negative actions towards me which hurts sometimes.